You’ve been more than reasonable and really it’s not safe for her to be in that house at all with a convicted felon and on/off crack addict. He’s not paying child support and he hasn’t got the means to look after her. Go to a lawyer and get primary custody until your ex grows tf up.
That a very generous offer from you considering his situation. I’m shocked he countered with such a request. I would probably just consult a lawyer and get their opinion but don’t necessarily need them with you the whole time
Thank you everyone. So here’s an update if anyone wanted one. I just spoke with a fabulous lawyer. He basically told me my options and that my offer is very generous. That a judge will give him less time. He wants me to file to force a court date and mediator. If my ex is being difficult call him. But he doesn’t see the reason to pay him if it such as easy case (an honest lawyer!) Also told me my state has a department that will handle child support proceedings for free
Agree with Peach. Most times got just represent your case. He C clearly doesn’t have a leg to stand on and no judge will grant him what he is asking when they investigate his situation. They will not allow the child to stay with a felon. Again, depending on where you are you just go to the court house and file for custody. They will set a court date and go from there. If you request this and he doesn’t show up. You automatically win what you asked for