Literally traded the boob for food and water haha
This ^^^ Offer lots of praise when they drink water. Sometimes when mine is really begging for milk, I ask if he wants to go outside. That excitement triumphs all milk desires unless he really NEEDS it (aka hydration). Then I can usually get away with handing him a straw sippy cup with water outside.
I've been offering favorite snacks and water if he's cuing at wanting the breast. Sometimes it doesn't work but it has decreased the amount in half.
I am in the same boat. Don't know how to cut her off.🙄