Postpartum Blues

Hi everyone . I am a new mother to my first baby who is now 14 days old . Started from the 4th day after delivery, I came home for my confinement and I have been feeling teary and sad up until today. My confinement lady is taking care my newborn most of the day, but i don’t know why I’m feeling like this . I feel like my life will change drastically , what have I done , why am I thinking like this I feel so guilty I feel like a bad mom. I have gone through multiple failed IUI and IVFS and miscarriage for in 6 years of my infertility journey, and I had my miracle baby in my arms now but why am I feeling like this :( I just want to get better I just want to be happy again. The day is hard especially when the sun is going down. My husband is very supportive though. My feelings come and go . They only last for a few minutes up to an hour then I’m ok. Any of you experience this , how long did it get better ? I really hope to get better and not have this minded and be a good wife and mother to my baby . Thank you .
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This is so normal. You’re not alone. My baby is 19 days old and I am like this now too, I had it with my first a long time ago.. You’re whole life has just changed I’m not surprised we get like this. Don’t try to force it away. Take it say by day and any help offered take it. It does get easier.. 🤍

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