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I'm feeling sad. I have went to a fair amount of expense for the food and asked people rsvp by the 15th. Then I double checked with everyone on Monday to see if something came up that they could no longer come. I ordered the pizza on Wednesday. It was expensive. I know I could have made the food myself to save money but I am exausted from caring for my twins and the extra help my son needs because of his disability. I am just not able to do all the cleaning/hosting/and all the food myself without help. My family including their father is not willing to help in any way ever. So today is Friday. The party is in two days. I have had three families tell me they can't probably come because of anxiety. I don't want to be a jerk but could they have just said no at the two other opportunities? I would have spent the money differently and just took my kids to a indoor playground or something if nobody was going to show up. I came to their children's parties and brought thoughtful gifts and made sure we were on time and present. I even rescheduled an Easter dinner recently to attend one. What am I supposed to say? Come if you feel up to it? I guess I'll be eating pizza for a week.
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Learn more about our guidelines.That is so frustrating! I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.
As long are close ones are there to make it special don’t worry ❤️
Thats hectic!! Sorry to hear that. I can pull up with my little one tho. Are you in the Tri-state?
My son turned 5 on Monday. We had cake and just our family. I usually just plan on that as we don’t have money to have a big party with family and friends.
@AJ no I'm in Canada that's way too far. I appreciate it though
@Samantha that's an idea if you have a good family. I only have my mom and my brother and if I relied on only them showing up there would be just me and the kids home alone like every other day
Im sorry 😞 I didnt have a baby shower for this reason and likely wont do a big 1st birthday either. Try to make it memorable for yourself (as your babies likely wont remember it) have fun and then later reevaluate your friendships because I wouldn’t deal with that! Also try calling the pizza place and explaining the situation. Or if you really have to just play the money card and say you cant pay for it so that they cancel themselves.
Where in Canada are you?
@Anya I already paid for it. It's too late
@Anya London Ontario
Ironic I have twins and a son who’s birthday is today but throwing his party tomorrow. It is frustrating so I completely understand!!
I feel you . I have 11 siblings all adults and they made excuses not to come to my daughters first birthday. I’ve learned that I won’t beg anyone to be in my child’s life 🤷♀️. I haven’t talked to any of them going on 2 years
@Analysa my boyfriend says I need to decide who I continue to do favors for when I can't count on anyone for anything that's important to me. My friend circle is very small currently but there's going to be some cuts going forward
@Deema I really don't have any friends at all. There's not one person I could call to spend time with me. The kids have a few people that show up inconsistently. My son is developmentally delayed and less and less people want to be around the kids. I have tried so hard to make friends by being a good person to people but it is one sided.