I bought a butt plug to get used to things going up there, and it helped a lot for when we went to actually do the deed
My husband was interested so I figured cant knock it til you try it. I hated it lol I dont mind the playing at the edge, but having his dick up there was not my thing. 😂 some people really like it tho! But I gave it a try and so he cant ever feel like I just shot him down without trying it.
It’s the best thing honestly. Let him fuck you like normal and then put it in your ass. I kinda like the pain so we don’t use lube but if you fear that then definitely get some. But definitely relax and maybe douche prior
start off and end super slow! i’ve heard of stories where girls pass out cuz the guy puts it in too fast or the guy pulls out too fast and it triggers a bowel movement. i personally haven’t had those issues but just make sure it’s at a time you’re comfortable and don’t have to poop lol
Hi :3 so first off theres a thing (looks like a balloon) u can clean your ass and intestine with it (so you wont be scared that you'll shit yourself cause for me this was the number one thing xD) and also you can order a special lube from amazon which is for anal sex, its relaxing your muscle and for me it was the best when i sat on him and he fded me when hes on the bottom (position is perfect for that) and also just a tip (lay hands on yourself while doing the other thing this feels extra nice) i really enjoy it very much like that buuut only like that Xp
With your first time, get a nice butt massage first so you're very relaxed, and use loads of lube. Stay relaxed and let him do all the work
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Anal is wonderful! Lots of lube and foreplay is mandatory. Relax/don’t tense up! And I know it’s counterintuitive but push out a little during penetration. Be patient, make sure it’s slow at first. Google some more tips. If it’s done right it can be great.
My boyfriend is into anal I am not the best with it for me sometimes it hurts more then other tbh but he always makes sure I’m lubed up lol and in a comfortable position it took me a while to even try and do it so just patience and lube lol
Honestly me and my partner were completely opposed to the thought of anal, but we tried it out randomly one day and we’re not too mad about it 😂 I’d just say lube, a lot of patience from his end, and do a lot of foreplay with each other get into the mood so that you’re feeling relaxed and not self conscious about it. And have fun!
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