Miracles can happen 💫

2.5years of infertility. Male sided infertility. 11months of testing and working with a private fertility clinic, and finally bein told after months of tests and money that we can start ivf/icsi in a few weeks…. Leads me to this week, I stopped testing and tracking due to the absolute heartbreak month after month, and randomly took a test this week, to my absolute surprise. It has taken days and about 40tests later for me to actually believe it’s happening. In all honestly we barely baby danced this month. Purely down to us both being overwhelmed and stressed about starting icsi soon. Absolute miracles can happen! Still have the absolute fear of this not bein real

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4 days ago

This is beautiful. So amazing to read. It gives hope 🥹🥹❤️

last month

That’s annoying. I also thought my GP would want to do bloods but they just took my word for it and booked me in with the community midwives. Nobody ever wanted to see a test either, just took my word for it. I did end up having a bit of brown bleeding at around 7/8 weeks and the procedure in my area before 12 weeks is to go to A&E. I ended up sat in there by myself (covid restrictions so husband wasn’t allowed in and had to wait in the car for hours). Then they checked me over and asked me to take a pregnancy test before they would refer me up to the right department for a scan etc. even though I’d already taken about 20 tests at home I still started to think “What if it’s negative now and they think I’ve made it up!”

last month

I contacted my dr yesterday to book in for blood work. They refused to do it this early on, they are well aware of our years of infertility and I explained i just wanted the blood test to tell me for definite. Iv done about 40tests. But im still scared they aren’t true. Just wanted the blood test to ease my mind I will contact my fertility clinic an pay to have them done. Just sad my dr wouldn’t do them given our struggle.

last month

@Stephanie this is beautiful. Congratulations to u on your little one. I contacted my dr yesterday to book blood work and they refused to do it.Just wanted the early reassurance that Im definitely pregnant So nerve wracking after bein told it wouldn’t happen naturally

last month

Congratulations. We both had fertility issues, I have PCOS and my husband low morphology, borderline count and normal motility. Just over two years of trying to conceive and a couple of months away from booking our private IVF cycle and I found out I was pregnant. I totally understand how nerve wracking it is and how it is hard to believe. I took loads of test too and constantly worried something would go wrong. We now have a beautiful 10 month old boy. Best of luck with your pregnancy and to others struggling, please never give up hope.

last month

@Abbie i feel exactly the same way.! I have such a physical job. Lifting and sitting on floor alot. It has me an anxious wreck all week 😭. Tryn to act normal but my mind is consumed right now.

last month

@MummaB honestly - I’m a complete anxious mess!!! I found out on Monday and since I can’t eat or sleep because I’m so so scared. Every time I go to the loo it feels like my heart is pounding out of my chest!! Sending loads of love - I hope our babies stick!!! Xxx

last month

@Abbie no way! Are you like me. Petrified of it not being real I haven’t even told my hubby yet. I want to make sure line keep getting darker. And also going to phone the fertility clinic for bloods. I dont want him to also be heartbroken if this isn’t real Sending love and hope it sticks for you too 🤞🏼🤞🏼

last month

I’ve had a really really similar experience this week 🥹🥹🥹 congratulations !!