Oh, you poor thing! ☹️ Are there any groups on here for mums in your area? If not, maybe you should start one and organise some meet ups? Or join an online book club. Find ways to chat to people about your interests.
Let me also say that I love my friend like a sister. She has always been there for me and taken care of whatever I needed if I couldn't do it myself. She would move mountains for me. I hate that I feel smothered around her 😭
@Afi tbh I have 1 friend and she has 2 girls and she eats sleeps and breaths them. She never takes a single day away from either of them. So no I have no one to be my own person with. I have no car no job... I don't leave the house with out atleast my littlest. Hell at this point i miss going to Walmart or run errands by myself 🫠
You are not a bad mom. You’re a mom & still you before you had kids. Just give yourself grace as you rediscover yourself again 🫶🏾💚
I was just telling my husband the same thing. Sometimes being a mom feels so isolating and lonely. It’s so hard to make new friends in the community, and most of the time our kids are the opening topic. I hope you find ways to find yourself again.
I’m not sure I understand the problem? You’re allowed to have things in your life that don’t revolve around your kids - why wouldn’t you be?! Or are you saying you don’t have anyone to do/talk about non-kid stuff with?
There is a group. I just started using the app so I havnt really checked everything out yet.