Am I wrong for being upset?
We have no food at home, aside from bread, eggs, soup… (which the kids are tired of). Kids are home from school for a 4 day weekend. My bd gets paid today & we’re suppose to go get food after work. He now decides he’s going for a haircut after work & the food has to wait. Mind you he gets off late as it is, (7:30 & usually home by 830). We have a quince to attend tomorrow & I told him I’m not attending. It’s not a priority to me if putting food on the table for our kids isn’t one for him. I told him how hard is it to just get up at 9 tomorrow to get his hair cut & run whatever other errands we have tomorrow morning. & it’s just a huge deal for him.
I’m also 8 weeks pregnant & just annoyed with anything & everything. Maybe I’m being dramatic… Ugh!
Yeah, you're right, he is no prioritizing what is really important, if I were you, I would show him how things should be done, it would take a while but your kids will appreciate it and you would stop feeling bad, either he change and atop being mediocre or walks away, I'm no saying this with a feeling of"prove that your are better" no at all, but now you have a family, kids who depends on you, you should teach them to prioritize and care for what is really important, that's how people become successful. Be calm and if you need food, maybe you can go to those food banks all over the place, just Google it, and also join to the groupa on Facebook called "buy nothing" they use to gift a lot stuff and food. God bless you and give you wisdom.