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Miscarriage?

I just came back from the hospital and was told I had a miscarriage I'm suppose to be 11 weeks but the baby only measured 9 weeks 2 days should I get the d&c or get a second opinion?
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3 days ago

@Tresa best of luck! And I am sorry sorry for your loss.

3 days ago

I go Thursday for the d&c

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@Anais I really haven't thought about that. Thank you for the suggestion 😊

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@Tresa I'm so sorry Teresa. Very sensative subject and I hope I don't offend you, but have you did DNA testing on the baby that past? My boss was having an issue like this and they discovered it was an errors with DNA. At first they thought it was her egg quality.

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This isn't the first time this year that I've had a miscarriage. This one seemed to be fine until now

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Sending you love and prayers. Don’t lose hope yet. Try to focus on self care and nourishing your body right now.

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@Tresa I'm so sorry for your loss. Don't give up hope. Everything happens at the right time. Hang in there. Sending you lots of positive vibes and virtual hugs.

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I had brown bleeding now it's red. It's not my first rodeo but doesn't mean it hurts any less I've been trying to have another baby for 3 years now I think I'm losing all hope

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Sending hugs I know this all to well I lost 2 hunn an it was heart breaking too me a while to gather my self but I made it through now the medical side not sure but I would get checked out just too be sure

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I’m so sorry Tresa. Did you have any symptoms?

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Did you have any spotting or bleeding?

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Sadly no

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Was there a heartbeat ?

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@Andrea it's a procedure to remove the baby from the uterus

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Sorry about your loss. I went through a MMC in January. You should be given options how you would like to manage- a d&c, medication, or let nature take its course. I personally chose d&c because I read horror stories about the medicine and in a lot of cases they still had to have a d&c. It can take weeks for your body to naturally miscarry. You really just have to decide what is best for you physically, financially, and emotionally. If you want a second opinion before proceeding they should give you another ultrasound in a week or two as an additional confirmation.

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Sorry youre going through this. What's is a d&c?

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Sending love and good vibes either way ❣️

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Get a second opinion, my baby always measured a few weeks behind but was born perfectly healthy. He was itty-bitty but born at 37wks weighing 5.6lbs

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Yes unfortunately this is a miscarriage but if you need the second opinion or don’t trust the doctor fully than you need to do what you feel if best and get a second opinion I’m so sorry for your loss.

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I'm going through this. I thought I was 10 weeks. Baby measured at 6.5 weeks. It's so heartbreaking. I'm getting a d&c but can't until Wednesday. Sending ❤️

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I’m also not sure at what point they can listen for a heart beat, but I heard one at 14 weeks. So maybe you can ask for that too.

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I don’t know much but about the medical side of it. But I would want a second opinion if I were in your shoes

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