I don’t know any woman or even heard of one that has successfully worked from home while looking after a child at the same time. It’s just not heard of. Tell your husband to take the child with him to work. See how easy it is. Absolutely ridiculous. Being a mother and tackling chores is a full time job as it is. You must be going through a really tough time. Is there anyone you can talk to? Can anyone give you a hand at all? Your husband is definitely a problem here though, you really need to stop letting him walk all over you like that. How does he get to play games instead of doing his part of house work? you both work, you both do the house work. 🤷🏻♀️ even if you weren’t working he should still be doing his part. You need to gain more confidence and put a stop to this 🏻
Your bio says you go to school for environmental science. You work a FT job in customer service, but occasionally do community work in schools? How does one “occasionally” work in CPS? And thoughout all of this, where do you use your license? In fact, explain to me what you job title is since you’re a “licensed therapist”
@Rose where are you licensed? You really shouldn’t say silly things when someone is in a fragile mental state. Do you know what could happen to your license if some words you shared on social media had a not so happy outcome?
@Rose I'm also a therapist, and I'd recommend some re-education here. I hope you don't harm your clients like this.
@Rose there is no way in Hell you are a licensed therapist 😂😂😂 pls stop.
@Rose this is wild coming from a single mom with an unplanned pregnancy. And no your “advice” doesn’t help 😂
@Alex I honestly don’t think ppl understand just how draining it is. Not to mention the implications of being behind at work due to having your attention divided and moving at a slower pace. Thank you ❤️ I don’t think he’ll ever understand.
I'm actually a licensed therapist but youre right 😅 I have no idea what I'm talking about
This is a post of a woman who is struggling and not only have you been less than helpful, now you’re being insulting? If you don’t have anything of value to add here, just leave. Otherwise you come off as a big troll
@Rose judgemental comments like that shouldn’t have a place on here. do better.
@Rose you’re jealous because you can’t relate and it sounds better than your situation. It’s not better or worse
It was a reminder. It helps actually. Your situation can always be worse.
I can’t imagine how you can work and look after a baby at the same time 😭 Madness! And being called out to be grateful for this impossible task as well. Absolutely shocking. Don’t listen to miss no empathy above here. 😩 I have no tips whatsoever except that your husbands sounds like an ass who needs to get a reality check and you need help. Help like a childminder, switching to part time job, asking for help from family but above all your husband must take a finger from up his bum. You’re supposed to be a team, it’s not about who does more, who works harder, blah blah. You suppose to both contribute one way or another and support each other. If one is struggling the other should take over… Etc etc. Sending hugs 🤗
@Rose gosh. Do you have any friends? I really hope your friends don’t come to you for any advice 😂 I say I’m struggling with my mental health and the first thing you say is “ I should be grateful?” You are exactly what is wrong with women and society as a whole to be exact. Btw never said I WAS NOT grateful did I?
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But I'd be pissed about the video games too.
You should be greatful you can be with your kids and don't work where you need to pay for child care. I'm jealous.
@Monét YES. I think for my sanity. I just wish he’d understand. You know?
@Alnisa “girl”/ scammer whatever you are: stfu
You should hire help. It’s a necessity for you both at this time.
@Alex therapy would be a blessing but I am just not sure how I’d work that into my schedule with this new job. I’m actually considering couples therapy. *husband on board* to be fair he does his job at the house chores (on the weekends..must be nice!) if a therapist can’t help him see how hard this is for me there’s no hope for us.