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@Alyssa from past stuff. His other friend when she had a shower, we never got a note. And also for me, we had a microwedding and we didn't want a baby shower but we had an engagement party. They didn't give a gift for the engagement party and never got us anything for the baby, even something small like congratulations. Like my friend's dad died, I didn't go to the funeral but I still sent them a sympathy basket.
How do you know they don't write thank you notes? I'm very curious... Did they say "we don't write thank you notes?" or do you just know from past stuff? @Alison I find not writing thank you notes to be very inconsiderate.
We did a diaper shower with a raffle. Diapers aren’t required it’s just a little extra. Do one or the other or whatever you are able to do i
And if you didn't have a baby shower, lots of people aren't going to get you something unless they go to the shower.
You just bring the diapers and the wipes if you want to have your name placed in the raffle to win something. It's not mandatory.
Do what you can. I did a diaper raffle and some people brought some and some didn't. I wasnt offended either way and people bought things off our registry as well as brought diapers but I did have a small shower so I didn't get much over all but If you want to just bring a gift from the registry do it. And if you just wanna bring diapers just bring diapers
I get it. To me it's not about the gift it's about the gesture so it's annoying when someone just doesn't do anything at all.