i was in the same situation feeling the same way i had a prenatal dna test done to find out who was the father and i felt more relaxed about the situation maybe your state offers the test and you can try that way but either way no one else opinion matters but yours stay positive
It's no one's business and when you see there little face you won't care, they will be all that matters. No need to be embarrassed. Go easy on yourself. X
I was in a similar situation. First off I'm glad you chose to keep the baby. Whoever the father once proven should be held accountable. Don't be embarrassed it has happened you can't change it now be proud of your baby the sooner you the better it is for you and your baby. Once you have your baby your standards will go up your respeft for yourself will go up because you have to lead by example now. I dont have a partner but i have my family that supports me they are my boyfriend/partner .....it takes a village and the biological doesnt have to be apart of that village but he needs to pay! It doesnt matter if he wants it or not that child needs his support so get the dna test and get the financial support you need because its hard out here. Again dont beat yourself up. Dont let your past define you! You are a queen you just have to believe it for you. Your going to be a great mom :)
first of all, I just wanted to say you can reach out to me anytime to talk. I’m so proud of you for being so brave. I can already tell you’re going to be a fantastic mom. If you don’t want to answer the Dad question, which no one should be asking anyway, all you have to say, is oh, he isn’t going to be in our lives. that way you don’t have to say u don’t know.
No need to be embarrassed! (I know that’s easier said than done.) You are allowed to be a sexual being.
I just wanted to say that you don’t owe anyone an explanation of your situation. Frankly, it’s no one’s business - they don’t have the right to know unless you feel comfortable telling them. You will be no less of a person or mom 💕
You know I can definitely relate I got pregnant by a guy I had just met and im so disappointed in myself I feel like that was a mistake you make when your 18 or something you know ? like I should have did better I had to possibilities of the father im pretty sure I know who it is but he's super unreliable and controlling asf so I'm really hoping it the other guy he's made it clear he doesn't want the baby and somehow that seems easier than fighting with a guy that doesn't understand respect or boundaries.. it was a dream of mine to become a mom too but he stole that experience from me. I beat myself up for not getting an abortion every day I feel it's so irresponsible to purposely bring a while in this world when i have nothing to offer rn