A Tad Crazy or …

Idk what to call this … so me and my bf. Had a huge argument a night because he came home late there was lipstick on his white tee shirt he told me he was alone on a hill and he didn’t know where it came from I just avoided it all because my baby had woken up and we had two parties to attend I just acted like everything was fine I wanted everything to be fine the next party I got a little drunk and couldn’t let go of the pain I felt bc. Of the shirt and lipstick he said It wasn’t true and I just left he made fun of me and recorded me crying my eyes out saying look how foolish you look the most accusations in 30 seconds the most women mentioned that idk who they are and etc. our parents got involved because I left the house I left because I had to be up early and I didn’t want to argue in front of my toddler I knew we would so I had to leave and stay with my mom plus I was supposed to wake up early to hit a park with the kids idk what to do .. I acted so childish I was so hurt and I just didn’t act how I would’ve liked to my man isn’t easy to talk to and I don’t know what to do now or where to begin on talking or apologizing . help please

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I left the party to cry and just let it all out I was hurt . I am still hurt I yelled at him I called him a cheater I asked him what that stain was he said he doesn’t know .

I personally wouldn't apologize, that definitely looks like lips and lipstick and the fact that he was home late too. He should be the one apologizing, you clearly have reasons to think the worst and for him to make you feel bad and then record you crying? That's just rude and disrespectful. He needs to explain what that is instead of playing dumb

You shouldn’t be apologizing, you didn’t act childish. He’s a cheater, and you know it. Leave him and don’t look back. Short of it being his mamas/grandmas lipstick, there’s no excuse in the world that would make this okay, even if he hadn’t lied about it from the get go. Which since he did lie about it, it’s definitely not his mamas or his grandmas. And him mocking you and recording you and humiliating you crying is called lack of empathy, and ABUSE. So is the gaslighting of insisting there was no lipstick on his shirt. Your man is not a man honey, he’s a narcissist. Leave him before it gets worse and you lose your mind.

You didn’t act foolish he did. 1 he’s lying those are a pair of lips clear as day someone kissed his shirt probably did more than that. 2 the way he recorded and belittled you is disgusting

Let’s forget about the T-shirt for a second… He RECORDED YOU and MADE FUN OF YOU when you were CRYING YOUR EYES OUT. What in the abusive damn hell…? Who is this guy? That is, like, psychopath behaviour. Now let’s go back to the T-shirt… Nah, girl. He’s a bad one.

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