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Getting an abortion tomorrow,me and my bd broke up like 2 weeks ago.We’ve tried to make things work so many times but they just don’t.You guys don’t even want to know what kind of mess he put me through the first time when I had our son.Through literally hell and back.We tried again over and over to make things work.We normally use protection when we have sex but slipped up one night.I took a plan b the next night so idk how this happened but he’s a narcissist.cheater and liar.He doesn’t put his hands on me or call me out my name but definitely will lie in heartbeat about anything.He’s untrustworthy.Even has went to the extent of lying about only having one son.our son is his second child.The oldest is from a previous relationship.I refuse to have anymore kids by him.Im sad things have to be this way but its for the best.I guess just looking for encouraging words😞

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I’m so sorry 😞 you got this it’s hard in the beginning I’m a single mother too and I tried so many times and it did not work I was depressed and crying for weeks but our kids deserve the best and happy moms your kid is going to know who’s there and who’s not my child already knows and she will be 2 in august

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I'm proud of you for making the decision to not be with him anymore. You're doing great. ♥️

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I am amazed how you can think clearly in a messed up situation like this. I’m happy for for being ready to move on… some men are like a spider web that is so hard to get rid off . You made the right choice for you and your sanity for sure. He does not deserve to be blessed like that being so childish

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It’s a hard decision to make, but don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it. Your doing whatever you feel is right for your situation. It’s okay to be sad. It’s a hard choice that no one makes lightly. Trust me, I have one child with a toxic bd and I’m so glad we didn’t have more. It’s just more hold he would have had on me. Sending you love and strength.

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I know you are going through a hard time right now, and it definitely seems like he isn’t going to be worthy of you but you know who is? God. I know it’s hard to believe but threw these hard circumstances, god gives us just what we need, sometimes what we are looking for, other times what we prayed for and sometimes something so much greater you couldn’t even imagine! I’ve been in your shoes, wanting to abort.. and I’m here to say, she’s going to be 7 this year.. and it was the best decision not too. She is exactly what I’m life needed. Everyday I wake up, and just can’t believe that god blessed me this way. So right now, although your life may be upside down, and you feel like there is no hope, or that your caring a piece of you you want to let go, trust me when I tell you, your caring your blessing. No Matter what you decide, I’m a witness of what it looks like on the other side, and trust me, the grass is much much greener on this side. Have a blessed night.

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I was in your shoes, momma. And did the same thing. It is sad. It is hard. But you will make it through it. Only you know the right path for you. And sometimes it’s a path like this. You tried your best, and know the right decision. Much hope & hugs for you, being sent your way from me. If you need someone to talk to at all, please do not hesitate to reach out. 🤍

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Despite all the polarizing stuff about abortions, it is Healthcare, it is your choice, and you are doing right by you, the end. I feel like anti choice people think that people love to have abortions and use it as a contraceptive while in reality I know zero people who have had an abortion in that way. Abortion is sad. It may be the right choice but it is losing a big what if in your life. I'm really sorry, I'm currently trying to get pregnant and can't but I'm still compassionate enough to understand that you deserve to be as disconnected from this bad person as much as possible. Take care of yourself, be the best version of yourself for your son that you can be. Hugs to you, this fucking sucks.