Is this Resentment??

I feel like I’m starting to resent my boyfriend. He doesn’t help me at all with our son. He works 7:00am to 4:00pm off weekends and is never helping with our son past couple of days he gets home and goes straight on his game. We got into a argument couple days ago because he kept getting mad at our son because he wasn’t being quite on his terms which passed me off and I took our son from him. Ever since then I haven’t wanted him touching me or my son lately. I’ve express how I’ve felt doing this all alone and he showed no emotion when I told him. I hate it when he’s holding our son when he’s happy and only seeing the fun part of him while I do everything that’s hard for our son. Idk what to do anymore it seems like I keep repeating myself and nothings is getting in his head. I want the help but I also don’t think I should have to ask for him to help with his own son. On the other hand I don’t want him to help because it got me feeling a certain type of way when he was getting mad at our son because he wasn’t being quite and my boyfriend tends to have anger issues so I fear for the worst. I’m currently sitting in bed while he plays on his Xbox with his friends it’s like I have to beg for him to spend time with me. I told him once I get quite then know you messed up and I’ve been quite and it seems like he hasn’t even noticed to focused on the game. Really just needed to vent.

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2 days ago

@Sam he’s 22 years old. He needs to grow up I’m going to end up giving him a ultimatum

3 days ago

@Mila definitely 😂😂

3 days ago

I feel like that game system is malfunctioning, don’t you? Maybe .. lol

3 days ago

How old is he? Honestly it’s time for him to grow up instead of playing games like a child. I’d give him an ultimatum get your arse in gear or that’s it

3 days ago

I think she meant a break from the relationship. Also girl ew! You deserve better than that! Real loving men are out there baby, don’t think you have to settle for less just because you created life with someone. Babies need to grow up seeing a good example of a healthy loving relationship and if that’s not with the father of your child, so be it! Obviously if you love him, do your best to work it out, but if he’s not giving you that love and respect in return go find a step daddy who will😅 I think we think we’re stuck with the people we create life with, and that’s not the case. Always chase what’s right for you.

3 days ago

@Angela I’ve asked him for a break but doesn’t give it to me and when it gets hard after 5-10 min he gives him back to me or gets mad. He doesn’t need to get made at the baby when he doesn’t even take care of him at all

3 days ago

I feel that you need to ask for a break. So je can realize what he’s lost. Give it time . Hell miss the family he had. Don’t go looking for Him or nothing . It won’t be easy but let him do all the work. Let him text you let him Look for y’all. Don’t bother him with nothing. Just go ghost mode do you. & he’ll learn his lesson.