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• 3 days ago
ugh
I have been with my fiancé for 11 years and he’s been my first, i’ve never orgasmed with him. I love him so much and we have great communication and are like best friends. Our sex has never been Bomb. Sometimes I wonder if another guy can satisfy me better than him but I would never want to lose our relationship because of that. help 😭😭
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3 days ago
Maybe ask to bring toys into the bedroom or something that will work for you guys, try spicing it up. And communicate what’s going on and maybe he’ll have an idea he’ll like to spice it up.
3 days ago
***Communication*** not commitment
3 days ago
Honestly I haven’t had an orgasm with any of my partners I don’t want you to go do something with someone else and still don’t experience it then regret it
3 days ago
Might not be the *best* advice out there but sounds like a girl needs to nut. Commitment to him your needs during sex and if he isn't willing to listen and try then get a vibrator and dildo would be my other options
You can’t put it all on him. As ladies said, you should be able to get there yourself first. Build intimacy and cultivate trust. He needs to know what you want/like and you need to be able to relax.