Struggling

Everyday feels the same and I keep telling myself that maybe I should have just gotten an abortion :/ My boyfriend broke up with me when I was about 5 months pregnant and he wanted me to get one but I didn’t listen. Everything is getting so real now and we barely talk and I just wish sometimes I could go back get the abortion and see how things could have been. It’s getting hard and I just cry everyday now because I feel so alone. I didn’t feel this way weeks ago but now it’s just all hitting me :(

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3 days ago

Your not alone I have my mom around for help and my husband tries even though his not the best and I still feel alone and mentally lost it it’s hard being a mom try to go for walks and enjoy your baby things will get better and I’m sure you hear that A lot but your baby is here for a reason a purpose try to seek help if you can

3 days ago

No one is going to have to deal with The outcome but you. So they can tell you to keep the baby all they want but they're not going to take care of it you are. Newborns are a lot especially with recovering and being a single parent at that it's even worse cuz you have no one to take care of the kid while you're recovering from a big procedure surgery getting ripped apart. It's taxing and it will deteriorate your mental health even worse then the pregnancy. Are you mentally prepared for that? I was not but I live with my mother so when I needed a break she could take over. If it was not for that I don't know how anything would have been possible.

3 days ago

Your not alone not everyone goes through it but ik I did I still do and idk if ever goes away fully . How I feel ask yourself this question. Are you willing to give up 5 years of your life ? I say this because the first 5 years I think are tough because they don't go to school you can probably send in the preschool and daycare but they're only going to watch them first a certain amount of hours if you're still working or still going to school it's hard . Sadly it is only a decision that you can decide on whether you want to keep the baby if you want to give it up for adoption. Just know either way when you make a choice dick to it and know that it was the best thing for you and don't look back.

3 days ago

I do recommend for you to seek help and speak to someone. You are not alone, you have a beautiful baby growing inside you. Don’t stress or cry because the baby feels everything. There are other options you can choose just know that. I pray you will find the strength to move forward and stay positive. God bless you.

3 days ago

Postpartum can hit at any time in the first year, I recommend contacting your OBGYN and getting referred to a psychiatrist or a therapist. Going on antidepressants saved me along w therapy. you will get through this but you need help and support! ❤️

3 days ago

sending love.