@Cookie bio mom already knew I lived with him it was our lawyer that asked when I testified against bio mom in court I’m just his girlfriend
Sometimes that can influence the decision of the judge. It looks better if the dad is committed to someone else so the home looks more like a “whole home” for the child but also he has to make sure there are no “skeletons in your closet” that could cause the judge to think the household is unsafe.
Live in girlfriend means a girlfriend that lives in the same home as the boyfriend. Essentially, living as married without the document.
Bio mom probably wanted to know if you live in the home where the child is going to be. Are you married or a girlfriend?
@Taylor yes our judge doesn’t really like bio mom very much she told her off like 6 times in court last time