If your partner doesn’t do little things like this…

Not a “wow I’m amazing post” AT ALL, but I’ve been so angry at what I’m reading about some of your non supportive partners it’s actually making me sad. What’s worse is reading you women ask if you’re the ones going crazy? If you’re being too much and if you’re not giving enough to your partners who are blaming you for everything 🤯 How do I make it clear to those women who need to know that pregnancy is literally one of the most difficult times of your lives. Your partner should be there supporting you (yeah he can’t change much by way of physical pain) and yeah you might be going a little crazy at times but they should know and understand that these parts are not by choice, emotionally they should be there at least and try to ease the pain where they can if they can. If nothing else, bring a girl a doughnut!! My dad was shit. My brother is vile to his wife and cheated on her 2 weeks before she was due to give birth to their baby last year. I’ve grown up with some of the worst ass holes but one thing I’ve noticed is all these guys love to blame others for their disgusting actions. I swore never to marry a guy like either of these men and I didn’t!! We don’t have to tolerate being treated less than, it starts with how you feel inside about what you know you deserve. Just basic human respect and compassion, nothing extra. Nothing ott. Just support! If your partner is cheating on you, calling you lazy or fat whilst you’re in such a delicate state (or any state for that matter) this is not normal. It’s not ok and it’s not your fault. It’s theirs for being jackasses. I’ll forever support you women who are raising kids, growing babies whilst keeping a home a home. I’ll forever respect these men who love and cherish these women in these roles and support her for the strength she is. The other guys can learn to grow up or take a hike.
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This is great but also bare minimum yall. Cuz I’m also reading all these post about unsupportive husbands and partners and I just wanna say that it takes two to create a person so it def needs to take two to take care of it as well on top of taking care of the house and everything that comes with it.

Amen to this 🙏❤️

Completely agree. My husband and I have the upmost respect for each other, care for each other when sick (or I’m pregnant) etc. we’re equals in our marriage and would do anything for each other. It is really sad when I see other women with partners who don’t respect them. They deserve so much more. Relationships are hard work but both are in it together and there needs to be mutual respect and caring. It’s a two way street. Love to all us strong women 😘 XX

Mines exactly the same Just tells me to relax and concentrate on growing our little man. But I also thank him and show him so much love and gratitude for supporting me and us

It’s awful some of the things you read! I feel very lucky to be on this journey with my fiancé, an absolute rockstar and I’m so glad he is the example our son will see of how you treat your significant other. That to me is so comforting. As mentioned above I think it’s so important to let your partner know how much you appreciate their support, this is a life changing experience for them also and sometimes I think the dads get forgotten about in the process of it all xx

So lovely hearing about your supportive husbands ❤️ I’m glad there are good ones still out there it restores my faith in humanity. Thanks for sharing

Love seeing positive post like this It was my turn to get up with the kids this morning but because I was feeling really tired sick and crampy my partner got up and fed out baby and three year old and got the oldest one ready for school

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