Why would he say/do this?

So my BD all of sudden said he wanted another baby. Never mentioned it before and I remember him saying it's a good thing I got my tubes removed. I did it bc I took care of my daughter alone while he did whatever. I have my own place and car and he didn't help me with ny of that. Before( he said all rhat) we got into an argument and he was telling me..it's okay to be single...and in my mind I was going to throw him out..then he says that. Also yesterday. He did not help at fucking all. We both work but my job is more physical. He gets off 2ork before me..but when I get off I have to pack the kids up and take my baby sitter home, to give him a break I stayed with my parents for a bit and got the kids ice cream. I told this man to clean up while I was gone... I com3 back..he didn't do it. Yet when he was at his mothers house he would mow the whole front yard. But I get excuses. Tying my tubes was THE best thing I could've done for myself. It's just the audacity to ask for another baby when he doesn't help. Then when I called him on his BS abt why he didn't clean but he has energy to mow a whole front lawn which takes more effort. He said please don't do this, please don't do this.. But had the nerve to ask to use my car when he didn't help me.. I said no.
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I’m confused. Is he asking for another baby with YOU? Because he knows that’s impossible, right? My guess is he probably said it to buy himself more time to stop you from throwing him out. Don’t overthink things. If you want to end things and ask him to leave, don’t veer off the path. Stick to your plan and don’t let his mind games affect your decision.

@Neena yeah he was asking that and I feel so stupid bc I fell for it. I do kinda want another baby but this man is a pos. Bc prior to asking me to have his baby he said it's ok for me to be single.

He understands that a tubal ligation is permanent though right? “It’s okay to be single” while you hate caring for his child?? 🙄 What are horrible thing to say.

@Stacey I agree with Neena. He was buying himself time from being thrown out. He barely watches the 1 child he has now.

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