I would say no because of family crap , in my experience it never resolved
If that’s his reaction and you don’t want to settle for less then why are you still with him after 4 years and he nor you have changed for the good? I’m confused as to why you are wasting time with him. You could move on y’all not married and your happiness matters.
I mean he shouldn’t have been rude but I see why he’s annoyed. Y’all have already been together for a while and he wants to marry you and you just don’t care. Whether in a marriage or in a dating relationship you still go through hard times so if you want to wait to get married to me that makes no sense and probably doesn’t make sense to him either. Y’all can work on your problems and family problems together. Because you do have high expectations and what you want might never happen. If you keep putting off getting married then he might not stay around for long. If your relationship isn’t healthy then why are you even In it? I think go to counseling and talk about it more and get married. Maybe marriage could even help with stuff but if you aren’t wanting to get married because of family and lots of other reasons then idk if y’all should even be in a relationship. Or waiting forever for something to be perfect to get married
Insulting and name calling 🚩not a grown up response
Girl. He started insulting you when he didn’t get his way. That quality alone is a red flag. Definitely don’t marry this dude.
He started insulting you because you have expectations about what you want your relationship to look like which is so great. His childish response to this however 🚩🚩🚩 He absolutely proved your point that he's not ready