This looks like the group for me
I don’t even know where to start with my in-laws but I figure at least people in here can relate. Here’s a list of a few of the fucked things they’ve done since my son arrived.
-called him a bastard
-refused a playpen we bought for their house cos apparently it’s offensive to them
-get angry that bub doesn’t like them/cries when they take him but don’t make any effort to see him to build a relationship. His dad even bragged saying I bet he cries when I take him
-bitch about me to my partner when I’m not there
-say I’m overreacting not letting my son play with THE ONLY TOY at their house as it’s tiny wooden balls which he almost choked on
-went to visit some random long lost Aunty ON HIS FIRST BDAY
-told my partner we need a new house as our 3bed 2 bathroom house is apparently way to small with a baby (no offer of help, just judgment.
-had a go about my baby wanting me and not
My partner when upset
-didn’t come to baby’s baptism cos they didn’t like the date we chose
-ignored my family (FIL turned his back and ignored my dad for no reason, my dad was trying to say hi)
This isn’t even the worst or the half of the stuff they’ve done. They’re just awful, controlling people who don’t like me because I make choices that are informed and are in the best interests of my son. They just want toControl my partner and obviously me being around has naturally meant he makes his own decisions or we make them as a family. For some reason they don’t like my family, likely because they have been SO MUCH support to me since having baby. My
Mum spends 2 days a week with us, and so naturally she has become the one who looks after him when I have apps or need to work. They get angry at that, but they are both retired and have had every opportunity to be involved but choose not to as they’d rather hang out with their friends.
Soz for the long post. I’m sure I’ll have plenty to add into the future cos these ppl are FUCKED haha!