@Jillian oh I totally agree. I have limited any interaction possible. My partner seems to be under some kind of spell and worships them, it’s our biggest issue in our relationship. He wanted to take our son to their house without me and I refused, I went with as I don’t want to be the reason he doesn’t see them, but partner said oh they haven’t seen him in x weeks and I was like well they know where we live. They don’t work and only live 15 mins drive. If they wanted to see him they know where we are
They only want to see the baby so they can take a few pics and brag about it to their friends. They also got angry at me for asking them not to share photos with ‘family’ who they’ve met once or twice who live overseas
the first thing i read my jaw dropped.. um. that’s very disturbing.
babe cut them off.. that’s so bad oh my gosh.
I would almost feel like my kid was in serious danger anytime he went around them.. i’m so sorry. that’s just insane
I’m so sorry you and your husband aren’t on the same page ☹️ it took a really long time for me to get my husband to see that his mom has narcissistic tendencies and is really hard to be around. I don’t know what finally made the lightbulb go off but it did. Try to have tenderness and grace, criticizing her to others in front of him and to him will only make him more defensive. That is honestly so sick that any adult would use a child like that. Maybe someone else in your husband’s life that doesn’t know his mom can’t get him to see the reality? Good luck girl.
I’m toxic so don’t listen to me but CUT THEM OFF! They obv don’t actually care about having a relationship with your child and they don’t respect you. It’s a no for me