Husband looking at other women online
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If he’s not showing any signs that he’s engaging with other women I wouldn’t say so. Men are gonna look. I definitely understand feeling insecure when your body isn’t the same after a baby but your emotions can definitely get the best of you and have you accusing when you shouldn’t. So if he isn’t like having conversations and isn’t doing anything shady I wouldn’t worry.
I'd be upset if he was searching out these women...
@Ashley It wasn’t an intentional look I was using his Instagram to look at post updates from the kennels our dogs are at and it come up.
Fair. But i agree with @Brianna
I definitely understand that would be a surprise if you saw it like that. I’m sorry!
Your feelings are valid, period. Our bodies have changed a lot and it is something we need to grieve and learn to love all over again. It's hard. Are you concerned about him being unfaithful with this? Or do you believe he just enjoys looking? Do you find yourself physically attracted to other people sometimes? Is there a boundary in your relationship surrounding pornography?
Is the women he looking up just random or women he associating with?
It depends on the situation. My husband rarely uses ig, he hates it 🤣 so when he does go on it, often sitting right next to me, his search page is full of half naked women. Why? Because that's how the algorithm works, being a male he automatically has a page full of women. He will "not interested" each photo and within a day they start popping up again. Now if he were purposely looking up these accounts and liking/ commenting on photos etc then I'd be pissed.
Agree with @Brianna He’s not having conversations with these women. He may not have searched it. If he engaged in one piece of content then the algorithm will send more. Conversations and him meeting new women is where there’s a possible problem. Him not engaging or interacting with you - that’s a problem. Right now seems like an innocent normal guy in a relationship which I can’t fault at this time
@J J 🌺 we always say "you can look at the menu, just don't order anything."
What made you want to search his IG search history? Bc i think thats the bigger issue.