Am I Being Too Sensitive?

Hi ladies. My husband and I got into a massive fight this morning, and I am still furious. Our almost 5 year old son would not stop screaming (we think he was overtired) and he started kicking and getting physically aggressive. My husband works from home on Fridays. I told him I was not taking our son to daycare acting like this - I would be late to work. I figured if my husband was home maybe our son could rest a bit to calm down, as he was literally uncontrollable. My husband proceeds to bring our son to the car and say to me “be a parent. Take him to daycare.” He always makes this comment “be a parent” and I always take it as him talking down on my parenting. Am I overreacting, or would you be upset too? I should also add he says this comment whenever I am hanging out with friends and away from him and the kids. It’s not my fault he has no friends…this really posses me off.