Brothers girlfriend pregnant! 😬

Not being funny but he is well within his rights to turn round to her and say f you and f the baby, she knew full well he didnt want a child and proceeded to remove HIS consent but secretly not taking her BC and baby trapping him, its her own damn fault, women like her are one of the reasons children grow up without fathers, she made her bed now she can lie in it

@Georgia what about his birth control he should have been using condoms regardless of her been on the pill condoms should always be used

@Tabitha did she or did she not stop her BC, and not tell hom with the intention of baby trapping him? In my book that make her wrong

@Georgia yes but he had his own responsibility of using his own protection which it sounds like he hasn't so both are idiots and the poor kid is stuck in the middle now

well her plan has a few holes in it firstly a baby certainly does not keep a couple together shes only putting herself in a situation where shes a single mum if their relationships rocky. i believe that having sex with someone with them under the impression you’re on birth control (but not actually on BC) is a form of sexual assault? so your brother should rightfully be pissed off and i agree with Georgia she cant be pissed when he doesn’t want the baby or pay child support. your brother should think about whether his girlfriend is someone he wants to be with first of all she seems awful…

@Tabitha and he is now gonna be trapped into having and paying for a baby he didn’t want, I’m not saying he shouldn’t have to wear protection but surely if he knew what she was doing he would have or he would have just left and he wouldn’t be in this situation in the first place. This situation is on her end of

@Karla I’m actually fairly sure it is. Look at reproductive coercion, it’s illegal. OG poster, removing birth control without knowledge to deceive and fall pregnant is actually an offence because both parties have to be in knowledge and consent. She was deceitful and used entrapment. It’s sexual assault.

@Tabitha it is called “stealthing” if a man lies about wearing a condom which is a form of rape. which is what the girlfriend did.

@ellie 🤍 its not my brother but if it happened to my brother id still have the same stance lol

@ellie 🤍 I'm not sure there's a law against it for women to do it with their birth control though which is crazy when you think about it but regardless he's still at fault too if he didn't bother to use a condom everytime. It's scary how many sexually active people don't realise you need 2 forms of contraceptive for it to work the pill only has something like an 80% success rate based on the type you use and then there's the Risk of STDs

He should probably contact men's advice line and seek their support about reproductive coercion https://mensadviceline.org.uk/contact-us/

@Georgia totally agree

@Tabitha let's not get into the whole debate of oh it's his fault too because he should've worn a condom. If she was using birth control and him not using a condom and they got caught pregnant, then yeah, fine, they both have to take responsibility, but this is absolutely disgusting! She must've been desperate to do something like this

Pretty sure this is illegal in some countries!

@Mary its should be illegal in every country

Is actually can be seen as a form of male rape and I do think man can even prasuit legal action now for it its just difficult thing to prove. I got pregnant by my ex my concerception failed and he told.me point blank he didn't want her and i was even considering an abortion but when he refused to take me to my appointment even after agreeing to do so before hand i started thinking and realised that even tho it took both of us to make this child i woudl be dealing with the concqounces of this by myself and whag i cousl deal with by myself at the time was keeping the baby. So i did take away his choice but at the end of the day it was his choice not offer any support for me during the abortion and his conceqounces for that is a 40 child maintenance bill

@Tabitha if I was in a long term relationship with someone I trusted and was on the pill, I wouldn’t use condoms. I’m assuming he trusted her and trusted that she was taking the pill. If she has intentionally done this and he has no say in it, I don’t think it’s okay to say well he should have worn a condom. They were in a monogamous relationship and she was on the pill. He didn’t sign up for this at all. Seems very unfair. If a man didn’t wear a condom and the girl presumed he had and she got pregnant, would you feel the same way? Would you say well she should’ve been on the pill?

@Mary it's just idiotic when you know the pill doesn't work without a condom as backup

@Tabitha you seem to be missing the point. Instead of man bashing read the post properly. She deliberately came off the pill and failed to tell him. We all know that contraception isnt 100% effective. Thats not the point here. The issue is her lying and trying to trap him. If she hadnt been so manipulative and the pregnancy happened then yes i agree its not all on her and in that situation its on both of them. But this scenario is entirely her fault.

@Mimi it's their fault it takes 2 to tango 🙄 scary how many people on here either don't see that or don't know how contraception works

@Tabitha its scary how you have a one track mind and simply cannot see beyond that. I dont want to waste my time with such a person. You know full well what the situation is yet you are trying to twist it into a ' omg people dont know how contraceptives work' thing. No point in trying to debate with a closed mind. Goodbye

@Mimi facts, too many women nowadays are unable to hold themselves or other women accountable for toxic behaviour and would rather man bash instead of taking responsibility for their own shit

@Georgia too right. I see it far too often. What that women has done is a criminal offence. So is the law wrong too? I think not! Im all for womens right but il also stand up for men when they are wronged.

@Tabitha he was consenting to “tango” with the knowledge his girlfriend was on the pill which was lied about. thats the problem.

@Tabitha we all know how contraception works honey that's not what the post is regarding you're missing the whole point and just saying oh well he should've worn a condom 🤷 likes it's his fault. The point is that this women has done something awful , lied, and trapped her partner into staying with her and you're just bypassing that

@Sophia this is actually the best response I've seen 👏

@incognito you can't not use contraception and then be mad a pregnancy happened that's literally insane 🤣 he should have worn a condom if he had any doubts she wanted to trap him which it sounds like he did he paid the price for his dumbassery or more the kid has paid the price since it will be growing up with her for a mother and no father

@Tabitha what a dumb stance on it 😂 who in a relationship uses multiple forms of contraception? I can imagine the vast majority of people don’t. It’s manipulation and abuse whichever way you wanna paint it. You clearly some mad feminist that’ll switch anything around so it’s a man’s fault 😂

@Amy adults who are properly informed how contraception works?? When you get prescribed the pill you always get advised to use condom's since it isn't 100% and the risk of STDs even in a relationship

@Tabitha It must be a sad to not trust anyone even your partner enough that you have to multiply the contraceptions. What about women that can’t take hormone contraceptions? Should they just never have sex? N I suppose if the guy starts poking holes in the condoms you’ll be calling her a dumb ass for not using her own? I’m sorry but when you’re in a relationship you’re a team. But you carry on victim blaming

@Amy luckily I'm incredibly gay! But when I was straight it was common sense and statistics that I always doubled up not lack of trust

@Tabitha I hope y’all are both using dental dams 😂

@Amy that's not a thing it's a myth ...but sure

I’m actually turning off comments on this. Good luck to OP and her poor boyfriend who has been trapped. This wasn’t an accident, she did it on purpose. There’s a massive difference. Unbelievable

@Tabitha it’s not a myth 😂 and what are you using to protect from STDs then? Cus by your logic you should both be using something… but I’m guessing you trust a woman 🤷🏼‍♀️

This is actually illegal and it’s called reproductive coercion. No one should ever willingly make this decision for another person, especially maliciously. She shouldn’t be getting support from his family at all and should probably be looking into mental help/therapy

@Tabitha wow so you’ve been telling everyone else they don’t know about contraception but you don’t know what a dental dam is???