What would you do?
I'm not very close to my parents, we didn't get along at all growing up and we live about 2.5 hours apart, we see each over a few times a year.
My parents are visiting in 2 weeks for the weekend (Fri-Sun) and my dad has just messaged me telling me he has taken the Monday off work too hoping that they can leave on Monday morning if that doesn't "put me out". And asking me to talk to my mum to persuade her (he hasn't even mentioned it to her. )
I feel so annoyed, party because he expects me to be a go between and also I know we don't see them often but honestly the thought of not having Sunday evening to myself after them being here all weekend is ergh. Especially when it's been next weekend. I don't feel mentally prepared for that. I just want time to get my house back in order and chill out alone etc at the end of the weekend but I feel like he's put me in an awkward position because I feel like it's my boundary but how do you say no to that when it's your parents?!