How to stop cosleeping!?
I don’t know if I’ve sentenced myself here 🥴😮💨 my LO is 3 months and never been a great sleeper but up until about 8/9 weeks she would sleep in her next to me for 1-3hrs at a time. She progressively got worse until the point she was waking every 20 mins, then refusing to be put back in her crib. I don’t really know what the cause is as it seems too early for sleep regression? She does have reflux but thought this would start getting better by now, not worse?
Long story short, I’ve ended up bed sharing for the last week or so, so that we can all get some sleep! I NEVER EVER wanted to bed share, but it’s crazy what sleep deprivation can do 😭
I hate it, and probably get less sleep than when I was waking with her every couple hours. I do not want this to become a habit.
I’m starting every night trying to get her in her own bed but every time I transfer her she screams- no matter how long I’ve nursed her for. I can hold her for hours and then try transferring and it’s exactly the same. She does not self soothe at all and if I try putting her in awake she becomes inconsolable- it’s awful 💔😭 No amount of parting/shushing/ rocking the crib works, it’s like we’re invisible unless holding her. She stops every-time she is picked up again. Please help me!! 😭😣 what can I do!?