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First of all I'm so sorry your going through this. First step is to definitely speak to your partner. He needs to know so he can support you and look after you, not add any extra stress ect. Also you will need his love and care through this hard time. There is a website - breastcancernow.org Looks like a very good place to talk , get advice and connect. Do you have family and friends - that could help out and take some of the load. Here is another link https://www.nationalbreastcancer.org/breast-cancer-stage-4/ In the mean time spend lots of time with your baby and husband, make some memories. And take lots of photos. Maybe you can make a go fund me or something like that to ease any financial problems - so your husband can take time off work to be with you. Maybe your friends could raise some money to help out also. Get them to ask the community for help Maybe see if anyone can cook some nutritious meals for you and your family. Take all the help you can get. Sending you so much love xx
Well first I think u should really talk to ur partner, that's step 1. Number 2 I think u need to really think about treatment options. U worry about doing treatment and leaving responsibility to ur partner but if u don't do treatment and u get sicker and God forbid something worse happen to u ur going to be leaving ur child behind and the responsibility will still be on ur partner but this time without u to guide him. Like I said I think u really need to speak with ur partner and the two of u can speak about what's best for u and ur family together. He may surprise u.