Does Anyone Have Great Results from this App? And Connect with Moms outside of this Platform

Please share any tips for Newcomers

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I did meet 4 moms here who I meet in real life now and we have play dates or just coffee dates. But there were also dozens of other moms with half dead conversations, one words responses or responses 3-4 days later. I was trying to connect at first but then I stopped wasting my time on those people. Those who really do want to find friends, they put effort into a convo and building the connection. My tip would be not to waste time on people who do not put any communication effort.

I do. I have met a great group of women on this app. We do girls' nights, travel together, and our kids are all friends. That was early on, so I'm glad I found them. This app has changed soooo much from when I joined about 4.5 years ago.

My tip is keep small talk to a minimum on the app. Suggest a meet-up sooner than later that way you don't waste time. Lots of moms say " playdates" but don't put in the effort. Also, give some grace. We all think we have time that we don't, and communicating on this app is tough.

@Olga I couldn't have said that any better I've found many people ghosting and making very little effort with myself, fair enough I've got anxiety but if your not interested in making friends then why be on the app.

Working on it. Hope to meet some but just got started. A few I feel we connected so am trying to keep the convo growing. Others say one word and I'm pulling to get anything out after that. Then I figure it's not a match

Nope. Was thinking of deleting it. Everyone wants to chat on the app and that's it.

Thank you for taking the time to share your experience and helpful tips on how to use this App - So glad to hear that it can be worth some time and effort 😁🙏🏾😁🙏🏾

I appreciate hearing about your great experience so far and how things have changed on here - I wasn’t quite sure how everyone was connecting for Playdates etc..I’ll remain open minded and flexible with high hopes

My excitement turned into confusion very quickly after receiving messages with minimal interaction afterwards or multiple last minute Playdate cancellations

I’m with you there - I hope that it works out for my kids

@Monique it's ridiculous isn't it, I've totally gave up at making effort with people when I'm getting nothing back ie dry convo

Beyond Shocking - I do not set any expectations with my little ones at this point since most people do not follow thru - Hanging in here, Fingers crossed 🤞🫠

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A gift for my son 4 years in the making, 14 years to go

I started this avocado tree from a seed the week my oldest was due with the idea of gifting it to him as a birthday gift for his 18th birthday. So when he’s old enough to move out he has a mature tree that hopefully can fruit.

I’ve had it in a bottle with water and fish tank water as fertilizer from the beginning and it’s still growing new length, branches, and leaves every year.

I cannot wait to give it to him when he’s older but I’m so attached to it I’ll be sad to see it go 😂

Diamonds

So I saw a post on another platform where someone was wondering why anyone would buy natural diamonds anymore since they have lab dimonds now and I commented

"I told my husband I want dinosaur poop diamonds not dog poop dimonds. lab dimonds could be made from anything natural dimonds are made from life on our planet billions of years ago and that to me makes them beautiful.
but there are businesses where you can send ashes of your loved ones and they will make you dimonds out of there ashes so I will be doing that with my 1st dog when he passes. my husband and I have also already decided that when we die he is going to be turned into dimonds and made into bracelets and im going to be turned into necklaces for our children. so they can always hold us close to them rather than just sitting in a jar or in the ground. might as well speed up the process. 😋
In my opinion the dimonds that you are able to choose what they are made out of are more special and valuable rather than dimonds that are most likely made of trash or rotting food."

What are your thoughts and preferences?

Macroni and sausage

Jollof macaroni from nma’sKitchen

Keep pushing

60 min work out on the peloton treadmill.

Relationships

What should you do almost 3 yrs in a relationship. And have a almost 4 month old baby together we are not happy anymore with each other. I ask him why stay he said he hope things work out. But it hurts me more. I dont want to seems im staying for our son. I just dont know if I can do this anymore.