Complicated situation š
Thereās a lot of thoughts in my head right now. I am in love with another man Iāve known for 10+ years, we always rekindle he knows I have children and Iām in a complicated situation with my Sonās father to where Iām not even sure if I want to live with him given the fact that he still doesnāt have his shit together and we have 2 children. He cheated on me a few months back and now Iām just trying to kind of pretty much start a new happy life. I love the father of my children also, even with all of the ugly shit that has happened but at the same time. I feel like it just wonāt be different once again after giving him so many chancesā¦. I donāt know what to doā¦ā¦He says it will be different but I just donāt know what to believe.
Iām saving money for just in case, because at this point I just want to make sure the kids and I are good on my end.
You deserve to be happy and that doesn't mean you need to be with either men. Definitely not someone that not respect you enough to stay loyal. If either man won't commit or make you happy, you can be happy by yourself with your children. Believe me generally people are happier when single than in relationships these days.