Forgo baby shower, alternative ideas?
I have a few reasons why I don't want a baby shower.. I already received the most important things from my registry, I am introverted and don't enjoy the attention, worried about large gatherings in cold weather, family and friends are all in different areas, also some family and friends may be upset if I invite some and not others.. also I would need to have a shower in the next 1-2 months so maybe it's already too late to plan and invite people. I was thinking, maybe just visit people separately after baby is born and they can give gifts when we see them if they want to? I feel like it's more fun and personal to actually meet baby individually? Will I regret not having a shower? Personally it seems like more stress for me to have one. if one of my family members or friends insist on it and do all the planning then maybe I'd feel better about it but I feel like everyone is waiting on me to ask.