5 days ago

Do you agree with this?

I’m a single mum, pretty much as soon as I became pregnant I became a single mum, my baby dad was seeing someone just a few months after I got pregnant and it was shit to see and know about whilst I would be sat home upset thinking why wouldn’t he want me and our baby. Well anyway that was a couple years ago now! Tonight my friend was saying how she’s seeing someone who has 2 kids and another on the way with someone, i was like oh wow and she said what and I was like well obviously it’s not very nice as I’ve literally been that girl who’s pregnant whilst the baby dad is out seeing other girls, it’s just not nice I don’t think! Should I have said this or not, kind of feel bad for my friend because I’m not judging her but I’ve literally been that other girl and it’s horrible, my friends never had a child before so doesn’t know what it’s like to be pregnant etc!
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4 days ago

Tbh I agree, and also men like that are red flags and more than likely will never change so whether or not she’s happy you said it, you do have every right to say it and others won’t know what it’s like to be in that situation until they are in it themselves which hopefully she will see sense before she does end up in that situation. Sometimes the truth is hard to hear ❤️ (Also I was not in this exact situation however I do know how lonely being single through a pregnancy is - I guess maybe people don’t get it if they don’t have kids/never been pregnant)

5 days ago

It's hard to sort of not relate to the situation and express how u feel about it. Did she take offense to it? Surely she understands if she knows you well that it's a sore subject for you? My first sons dad left me for another woman and had 2 more children with her so for ages I was very sore in situations like that, I hated watching certain TV shows or films where a woman would go after a bloke already in relationship/with kids etc This woman also used to try and make it hard for him to see our son so when I heard of people having problems with the current partners children from previous relationship that also made me sore. So just saying your entitled to feel the way you feel 😊

5 days ago

I agree with you personally, I don’t see why you’d want to be in a relationship with someone who’s gotten someone else pregnant? He should be focusing on his children and his child that’s on the way. I wouldn’t feel bad as you’ve been in the situation yourself and know how it feels from her perspective, I’ve also been in this situation. Ultimately it’s up to her if she wants to continue seeing him, but I do think you’re allowed your opinion x

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