I feel the same and have to take annual leave to do housework etc. Recently on a weekend I have been asking my partner to take Jack out of the house to soft play etc on a weekend morning so I can get some stuff done and I also delegate to him things he can do if I take Jack out! Then we spend the afternoon together. But even with this the women will still carry "the mental load" of a family, all the activities, appointments, food shopping, clothes shopping etc.
Yep, my husband doesn't understand. I work shifts so have time of in the week but still feel like i dont have time, mothers mental workload is real, looking after family, appointments, house, bills, payments, constant lists running through my head. And no time to myself
Iv been thinking about this recently. I don’t have time to do all the house chores as well as a full time job and looking after a toddler. Men just don’t get it do they! In reality I need to work 4 days a week but earn the same money and then I could have one day a week to get the washing done, cleaning food shop etc . . 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️