I felt this after a traumatic birth and first few days of postpartum. Please understand that it's normal that not everyone feels "in love" with their little ones right away. Don't worry, it will come. It happened a few weeks later for me, and even then just yesterday I was commenting with my husband that I love my son 1000% more now than in his first few months. At the end of the day you have just met them. Give it time x
Nah everyone develops their attachment in their own time. If you're worried, talk to your OBGYN about your feelings. I felt very very bad for the first month and a half or two. Baby's are a huge adjustment. Give yourself a break.
It sounds like ppd, just remember it's not your fault but it's unlikely it will pass on it's own so please reach out to your hv, midwife, Dr and get some support xxx
Maybe might just be
Bless you, contact your health visitor xxx