Do you get jealous or mad when your husband/boyfriend look at other women? For example at the beach? If so, how do you handle it? If not, how can I become better so that I can stop feeling this way. (I should add I’m not ok with porn and I’ve caught porn on my husbands phone multiple times) so it kinda ruined the trust that he wouldn’t be looking at them sexually.
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Girl this ain’t a you problem it’s a problem within him . Self discipline major key factor to successful relationships . Tell him practice it

Men are very visually stimulated by women naturally, porn definitely enhances that in the worst way and has to be a personal choice to not do that (which is hard bc most men are addicted). The best thing you can do for yourself and your marriage is to focus on your personal health and physique. I was about 50 lbs overweight after each of my kids and I managed to lose the weight and I gained so much self confidence and happiness from it and my husband loved it too! My advice is get in shape. You’ll be so much happier and on top of it be more attractive to him. Then maybe you can address the porn and ask him to take the steps to stop watching it. It won’t be easy but it’s worth it.

I’ve put a lot of effort to have good physique and adequate self esteem. First of all, I did it for myself. But it turned out to be pretty handy for my marriage too.

No I wasn't okay with it. I'm freshly divorced. That's lust and lust destroyed my marriage little by little. Over time it created so many insecurities in myself and so much anger. And I was always on edge or felt threatened. Try to talk about it or getting counseling if he's willing. It's not easy but not impossible to fix. Best wishes ♡

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