Partner getting on my nerves, help me understand
Anyone else’s baby daddy smoke weed and while off it they’re a damn asshole. When I met him I had no idea he smoked he would hide it and I just feel so stuck. I was raised without alcohol and drugs im just so annoyed at his personality when’s he’s sober I really just want to be away from him at all times it’s so depressive. Help me understand him I don’t know what else to do we have two littles but his personality is out of control sober. I don’t know if I want to stay anymore
I’m sorry you’re having to go through this! Goodness that has to be hard. All you can do is try to keep the communication lines open and tell him you would like to understand and come up with a solution, maybe couples therapy or maybe he needs individual therapy as to why he needs to be under the influence to function. If he isn’t willing to make necessary changes to save his relationship with you, then it might end up being time for a separation.