Cheating on your male partner with a woman

All depends on the boundaries set within the relationship. Some guys get off knowing their partner has been with a woman and wouldn't deem it cheating. However I think if your bisexual going with a woman is the same as a man as your sexually attracted to them the same x

Without the partner knowing anything at all, i don’t think it’s any better than if she was cheating with a guy. My partner wants me to go with women, but he would like to know about it

I think cheatings cheating.. regardless of gender

It’s still cheating bc it’s being sexual with another person w/o your partner approving of it.

The main problem is several women looking at it as "she's just my bestie... my friend" while they're actually sexting, kissing and having sex. If the partner is not aware or of it's outside what was previously defined as boundaries with in the relationship, that's cheating.

You ladies would be surprised the amount of women that do it and say its not cheating. Its so offensive because they are ultimately saying that two women together means nothing and yet they have the audacity to call themselves bisexual. Being bi is more than an attraction. It's an actual love and appreciation for women and seeing a relationship with a woman equal to that of a man. Personally women like that make me sick and give genuine bisexuals a bad name.

If your partner doesn’t agree on it then it’s classed as cheating, and I personally wouldn’t do it, by partner however doesn’t find it cheating but there are some out there that do, every relationship is different..

If your spouse doesn’t know and give consent to you sleeping with another woman than it’s technically still cheating🤷🏽‍♀️

I still think it's horrible that a man doesn't deem it cheating. It's saying that two women together don't mean anything. It diminishes lesbian sex and lesbian relationships....

That’s your opinions. But your the one that’s on the bisexual group knowing that there are women in relationships where there men don’t find it cheating maybe you should stick to a more appropriate group hun? 🤔

@Amie Excuse me. I'm an admin of the group and all I did was ask people's thoughts on a particular subject and share my own. This is a group for bisexual/lesbian women. Who are you to tell me this group isn't appropriate for me because I don't agree with women using women for sex while been in a relationship with a man 😐

Since when does a disagreement within a group mean someone shouldn't be in the group. Their are women who have commented here with things I don't agree with but it's fine. My opinion isnt the right thing to do it's just an opinion. I posted this because I'm open to other people's views and learning. I didn't post something putting people on blast or being rude. It's an open discussion. If you can't understand what a discussion is, and if you think disagreeing within a group means a person shouldn't be in the group.... Then maybe this isn't the right group for you

@Amie Actually. You DMd me and we had a nice conversation .... We share different opinions and we had a lovely positive conversation and yet you're telling an admin this isn't the right group for them. I'm mind boggled

Well I’ve read your comments previously and it seemed like a debate, we have had a lovely conversation. I am one of the nicest people you will meet I’m a girls girl through and through, but I just feel like everyone’s views are different, I wasn’t being rude but I just feel like we can’t judge. People live there life’s differently, I don’t agree on cheating your totally right but I personally don’t think it’s none of anyones business if they wanna sleep with a woman whilst they have a husband and it’s ok with there partners. I’m not saying your views are wrong. But it’s just how I feel..

@Amie Their are alot of variables as to why I think its wrong. Firstly people treat bisexuality as polygamous, they like to have both at the same time and that's not bisexual that's poly. Second alot of women who sleep with women while with their husbands lie to women, they make out like they're single, theyre not transparent about their intentions. It can make a woman feel used. It's not all bisexual women but it's alot of them. As I said in a previous comment it gives genuine bisexual women a bad name. As soon as women say they're bisexual peoples primary thoughts are, okay they wanna have their cake and eat it. The LGBT community gets alot of hate and women stating they're bisexual when they have no intention of dating women and just wanna have their pussy eaten (excuse my crudeness) while in a relationship with a man is gross, especially when they lie. I think if a woman is freaky and or polyamerous they should state that instead of saying their bisexual.

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You are mixing bisexual and biromantic. I class myself as bisexual, I get turned on by women, have had sex with men and women but only ever fell in love and dated men. It might change (maybe I never met the right gal) but si far I am happily married with two kids and still craving a hanky-panky with a woman every now and then…

Maybe my views are different because I'm a lesbian. I don't know. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I see it as cheating wouldnt do it i have respect for my partner