I was about to put getting sterilized into motion so when I found out I was pregnant I was like 😵💫whet?? @Brittany
It's normal to feel that way. My baby wasn't necessarily planned either BUT I'm grown enough to admit that she wasn't prevented either- if you know what I mean. So, here we are , doing the damn thang!!🤣🩷 & so will you.
I really appreciate all of you guys for not judging. This was unexpected and unplanned & I keep having these freak outs like omg what am I doing? But I hope I can be an amazing parent & that they feel loved💛🫶🏾
Almost 10 years in and still don’t know what I’m doing 😩🤦🏾♀️ more scared about my second child then my first just take it oneday at a time
8 years later and it's still a little scary. Wondering if you're making the best decisions, wondering if you're doing enough,. Etc. It's an emotional Rollercoaster being a mom. But you will get into the swing of things..for me, it kinda kicked in naturally..being nurturing to her. I mean I didn't know what I was doing 100% but my motherly instincts kicked in. The love for your child is truly out of this world ! 🌎 🥰
@Dionna it was the same for me😊
Yes. I never had plans to have children, so my whole pregnancy I was scared shitless, especially in the beginning!! I was so sad I would never be my old self before baby & I had no idea if I would be able to be a good mom. But we’re almost 3 months in and the love I have for him has made everything better. I feel more confident as each day passes. Now I can’t imagine life without him!
I believe everything happens for a reason..u might not see it now but 1 day u will.