No Cooking Help
I just need to vent, and I feel kinda bad for doing so.
So I’m currently 22 weeks, this is my first pregnancy and I had no idea it would debilítate me so much. I was terribly ill and completely bed ridden during my first trimester I had to quit my job, and survived off of chocolate milk smoothies with nutrients (breakfast essentials carnation brand), cereal, toast, and fast food my husband would bring but most of the time I was usually just asleep. Second trimester has been better but 95% of the time I am just exhausted, problem now is that I’m always hungry. So I started cooking again which I actually enjoy, I try to cook at least 2 meals a day brunch and dinner or a lunch we can turn into left over dinner with included sides. But some days my body exhaustion wins, I can’t even get out of bed and those days everyone is just digging around for scraps. There are 3 adults living in the apt myself, my husband and my sister. My husband works full-time which is why I feel guilty about making this but I am so confused as to why no one else can step up and make us a meal, 1 meal at the end of the day. They are all capable of making simple dishes; ramen, spaghetti, hamburger helper, Mac and cheese anything! But no, if I don’t cook something they will slap whatever they can on bread and call it a day, they won’t make me anything, and I’m just so frustrated of some nights going to bed hungry because they refuse to cook anything. I know we are all adjusting but 1 day where I don’t have to worry about feeding all of us would be nice. Everything else around the house we all pitch in, cleaning, pet care, but I’m the only one who cooks as well as gets the groceries, washes every dish before and after each meal, and the prep.