My husband and I just had our second child in September. With the first, we were like teenagers during the 6 weeks where I wasn’t cleared for sex. We couldn’t seem to get enough of each other and constantly were wanting to rip each others clothes off. We didn’t until I was cleared but I’d finish him off with blow jobs.
With this second baby, I just have not been in the mood and he keeps trying. It’s hard because I feel so sleep deprived and like I’m constantly putting my toddler and babies needs first. Then I feel guilty for not putting his needs as a top priority. His work has been pretty demanding too so it’s hard to feel connected right now. We are 3.5 weeks in now.
Id love to feel turned on and surprise him with some oral. But I just don’t know how to get there. Any tips or has anyone else experienced this? Sex is such a mind thing for me and I wanna be in that mindset again.