Give yourself some grace! It’s okay to take this hiatus. If you want to try and get in the mood, what works for me is to just start coming onto him and giving oral even if I don’t feel like it. Usually in about 30 seconds of starting oral I’ll get turned on and into it (Pavlov effect maybe?). Other ideas are to try things that maybe worked for you before - think of moments he is there for you, or a particular sexy session you’ve had in the past. Is there something you can tell HIM to do that works? Give you a massage? And if you can’t get there - that’s okay!!! You will again and your needs and rest are equally as important, esp at 3.5 weeks in.
Oh my.. nothing is private anymore 😳
@Amanda this is a group for sharing it all lol