I've still not announced yet as a few weeks back my brother had a baby and I've not wanted to take there lime light and last week my grandad died so family dealing with that and organising his funeral so feel like I need to try and hide it until after his funeral 💔 I'm 15+3 today and not sure how long I can hide it for his funeral is 10th November so a few weeks yet.. what would you guys do announce before or wait till after the funeral 🤔
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I am sorry to hear about your Grandad, I hope everyone is doing as well as can be. We haven't yet either. We are waiting to half term to tell the kids when they are less tired. Also my cousin just had her first and for a lot of reasons it is important for her to have the attention. So will probably be 16 weeks or there about when we announce. I would say you need to think about how you feel. You want it to be a happy thing, but remember the joy of a new baby can be very welcome when there is also grief around. Whatever you do you will do it right because everything about your message shows how deeply you care and how much you are thinking about everyone who is important. X

Sorry for your loss lovely. I'm 15+2 and have no plans to tell anyone soon. Leaving it until Christmas x