A bestie who’s obsessed with a married man 🤦♀️😠
Show your support
I would choose family over a bestie. And I would also let the bestie know how much her bad decision is affecting you and hurting another marriage and how this will affect your nephews. I would tell her to leave your family alone or she will lose your friendship. Ask her if it's worth losing your friendship. Be strong with letting her go and losing contact if she does not make the right choice.
I’d break up my friendship with her. She is too comfortable being disrespectful toward you and your family 💔
It sounds like your brother is giving her false hope. Neither one of them should be speaking to eachother as they both have spouses. I wouldn’t cut ties with them, but definitely put them both at arms length until the situation is figured out.
It appears that your friendship is solely based on your connection with your brother, since that’s the first person she asks about when she calls. Clearly your friend has no moral compass and doesn’t care if your brother is married or not. Therefore, I could never trust her let alone hangout with her. But your brother is trash as well. He’s the one in a marriage, yet he’s entertaining other ppl. You telling your sister in law what’s going on is completely up to you.
Tell her to get lost. She’s not a true friend if she is never ever checking up on you & always just talking about your brother. She is going to ruin a family .
I agree with @Sarah Lovan 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I'd be calling up my brother and yelling at him for talking to her while he's married. He's giving her false hope and disrespecting his wife.
Have you called your brother out on what he's doing? He's the married one and seems to be going along with this as much as she is if he's in near constant contact with your friend. You seem to be putting all this on her and yet the way you've written this it looks like both are as bad as the other. Even if you take a step back from being friends with her because of it your brother will probably continue to contact her.
You need to also talk to your brother because he’s entertaining this, it’s your friends fault too but not only her fault. And you should be straight up with your friend as this is not a joke she’s basically ruining your family’s relationships.
@Rosemary I did that trust me so many times. However, my brother always pass the blame to my friend saying she’s the one who always call him and ask for money etc..that she knows well that she’s a married man but still go after him 😣
@Sarah Lovan imma do that mama thank you so much for this advice means a lot because I’m tired of this friendship I want out!
@Liv Life sorry but I’m gonna have to disagree my brother is not obsessed with her 🤷🏾♀️she’s the one who’s obsessed with him 😕 because she knows so well that this man is married but why is she still going after him ??
@Rosemary I swear I did yell at him so many times I even threaten him if he keeps contacting my friend I’ll tell my sister in law but he knows I will not do that because we all love our sister in law so much out of respect I don’t wanna break her heart especially if she found out that the woman her husband is messing with is my bestie 💔
@Sophia this message right here! 🙌🏿❤️ Thanks Sophia :)
to connect with women at a similar stage in life.
Trusted by 5M+ women
to connect with women at a similar stage in life.
Trusted by 5M+ women
@Stacey I’m telling you! I have no choice but to end this friendship! Thanks Stacey
Will it hurt your sister-in-law more to find out about it from you, or to find out later that you knew and didn't tell her? He blames her, but he doesn't have to answer the phone when she calls. He is choosing to do this. She feels comfortable going after a married man because he hasn't rebuffed her, and by telling her he's going to move to the US for her, he is obviously encouraging her attention.
Your sister-in-law is your family, If nothing else thing about your nephews. Tell your best friend to not tell you anything out of respect for your family. If you’re brother and sister-in-law aren’t as happy as they seem are going through a possible divorce she should stay out of the way until it happens. I know that we’ve all done things we we’re younger not know any better, If someone was messing up my family I wouldn’t be happy about this for my children’s sake. She should leave it alone because Sentors are very private and if something like this does go on they typically don’t leave their wife. Is she ok with forever being a side piece? Women love a powerful man who wouldn’t she could be in the same shoes soon.