Same here. But i try to remind myself that we've married a new generation of men. Fathers that are more involved and more vulnerable with their kids. So when i think about fathers of generations before it helps me feel better. We could be married to d-bags that show up for 10 minutes of play and dip out to watch tv. We are an extension of our babies. They know we'll never leave them. They're not worried when they don't see us because they know we're nearby. Give it a bit. He'll come around.
I was feeling like this today. We were all in his big pack and play and like always he was all over daddy. He then started to come by me to give me kisses and would go back. Made me feel better. 🥰
@Virginia my baby daddy does just play for 5 minutes and watches tv the rest of the time he has with his son 😭 Sorry I’m so jealous and bitter
My baby is the same. I once heard someone say that we should just be grateful that our babies have people that they feel safe with regardless of who it’s with and that has completely changed my perspective!
He might just see you as an extension of himself. I’m sure he doesn’t actually feel indifferent! They also go through phases. Don’t worry, he loves you. 💛