wanting more in my relationship
i knew how my boyfriend was before i got pregnant so it’s kinda on me for allowing this but. I want more from our relationship and i don’t know how to bring it up.
We’ve been together for 5 years and i’ve never been taken on a date granted the first three were long distance, but his excuse is always he doesn’t have any money. but when he gets money he only wants weed and vapes.
also, his work ethic is pudding me off we’ve been living with his mom since august as a way to save money and he has yet to get a job, and seems content in having others get stuff for us. also, his attitude towards his mom all she asks is that we keep our room clean and he takes out the trash and recycling yet that’s a problem for him and he’ll throw little temper tantrums which he’s done before i was pregnant.
i don’t know i think i’m finding more things i don’t like about him now that we have our son and it’s really making me question if i want to do this with him at all.