Anyone else find comments from people who had a single baby? “What, you don’t have a set routine?!”

Drives me crazyyyyyy. Hardest part for me is people with single babies thinking they have any idea of the ‘norm’ of multiples 🤯
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Yeah 😅 I’ve had people say oh I guess having twins is pretty much the same as having one baby 😂 like it can’t be much more difficult. They’re deluded part timers 🤣

And there is me with a single baby.. thinking imagine having two of these lol I salute you mamas/caregivers with multiples.🫡😅

Yes! I want to shout shutup Karen having one baby must be so easy! You try carrying 2 screaming babies with only 2 arms! Lols

@Amber deluded part timers! Yes! ☺️ 😆

Sooo true! You just can’t compare it. Having twins is crazy. Can’t imagine how hard it must be to have triplets or more 😱

@Amber someone said to me once, “oh wow twins! So what how do you manage? Just do everything twice?” 😐😐

@Stacey no one seems to realise they’re two completely different babies with different needs etc 😅 you can spot another twin mum right away 😅😂

Haha yep one likes to be rocked one likes to he bounced one wants a whole bottle the other with 3 breaks

I vote to include those mad twin mums in this that say 'you just gotta get them in the same routine' but somehow never give the how part... Like seriously f'ing how? Mine seem to have completely different sleep needs how th heck do I sync uontwo completely different individual people?!

@Mou mine are literally exactly the same one loves sleep and needs one more & one isn’t too bothered about sleep and doesn’t need as much. You literally can’t force a baby to sleep 😂😂

@Mou out of interest what kind of twins have you got? I've got dcda boy and girl and they're polar opposites, I was just wondering if say identical twins sleep more the same etc

I’ve got boy/girl twins and they’re completely opposite too 😂 girl loves her sleep and naps and she’s the calmest baby ever but the boy is the complete opposite 😂 he’s so full of energy 😅 that seems to be the norm for boy/girl twins or maybe all twins in general 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

@Amber my boy is really mellow loves a cuddle my girl is so head strong. Its so cute cos she's tiny and he's a chonk

100%. Or when the pediatrician tells me " you should just let them fall asleep on their own in their cribs" oh and wake the other baby up so I can repeat alllllll night long? Thanks doc 🥴🥴

@Maz mine are identical and are completely opposite in every way 😂 (apart from looks)

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@Kylee took the words out of my mouth!!🤣🤣 my household is absolutely chaotic all the time, routines left the building when the twins arrived haha managing to get in the shower before 8pm is a good day🥴

@Nicole no right?? I literally shower once a week at this point, I can't even remember the last time I brushed my teeth, but the babies are taken care of lmfao

@Kylee I can relate to this 😂 not brushed my hair this week yet 😅😩

@Maz bless them haha mine are the same girl is tiny and boys huge 😅

@Mou I was EXTREMELY lucky that my boys were pretty much on the same sleep cycle and have maintained that. But I know for a fact that not every mom of multiples gets that. I cringe every time I hear mom or worse, doctors, suggest that it’s easy or that if you reinforce a schedule long enough, it’ll take. It just doesn’t work like that. These kids got their own schedule 😂

@Amber no same 💀🤣 it's fine, I'm fine 🤣

@Kylee yes along as the bubbas a fine ill happily walk around like a mess🤣

@Maz I have Dcda girls, and yep one is chill and is absolutely not chill. My mum is a twin, and her twin and her are completely opposite so I was somewhat already mentally prepared that my twins would be different. Honestly I reckon identical twins probably the same, they look the same but probably have different temperaments x

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