I’m on strike today. I’m not fucking about no more.

Today I’m only being a mum and loving and looking after my kids and that’s it. I’m demanding some respect. My boys and I are going have a nice cozy snuggly day together in the bedroom. No cleaning today like I do every fucking day. I am only doing a load of my kid’s laundry today and that’s it. I’m not washing up. I ain’t putting away the other laundry. Ain’t doing fuck all. He can Come home to a fucking mess today. He knows that I can’t have the place in disorder but that is why I’m staying in the bedroom all day with my boys. Want to demand sex from and give me some weak ass apology? Want to not let me speak to you about my feelings and mental health but I must always do it for you I am financially independent. This is my motherfucking house. I’m not fucking around anymore. I love him but fuck that. I got 2 kids and will be working again in a few months. I ain’t having it anymore. Kiss my fucking unpedicured feet. Cuz when was the last time I done something that I actually wanted for myself. I ain’t got no one looking out for me so fuck this. Sorry my lovelies I just needed to put this out there. The flippin eye pass gon finish here today rasssssssss!!

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Right ladies. I’m on day 2. Going to take the kiddies out and such but will be doing the same thing again. But this time I ain’t even letting him know. Also, thank you 🥹 Until I get some proper appreciation and respect then this will continue. I actually felt so much better yesterday until he came home.

Kiss my unpedicured feet 🤣🤣🤣 yes sis put yourself FIRST 💯

Pause you went hard sis I LOVE THAT FOR YOU (Choosing yourself) sounds like snackies and hot chocolate type of night to meeeeee and vibessss💙🩵🫶🏾

@Keisha thank you 😄😁🩵

Good for you! Keep up the no work lol!!

Awww thank you my lovelies!!!! So far so good. I’m actually having a good day just enjoying my little ones. I sent him a text this morning saying that I’m on strike. He called me straight away 😂 I told him I’m not doing anything at all today. I’m only taking care of the boys. He messaged back apologising and then said he has butterflies in his stomach etc. I just responded saying today is going to be a great day. I’m actually proud of myself because I hate disorder but I have actually let it go and we are having an amazing time in the bedroom playing and watching Bluey and being silly. I’m not trying to slag him off and he’s a good person but like the things I have done and sacrificed for him in our whole relationship and still continue to. like I can’t always be 100% everyday. He’s also got freedom to do whatever and go wherever whenever and I can’t even shower on my own. I’m not a robot and he needs really understand that. All these words I ain’t having it anymore.

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Yes babes I love this for you, not so much for him but us moms have to reclaim our life more. After having kids you’re obligated to give up a lot of control already for them 😶 stand on business love

Omg! Love this post girl. Do yo Thang today. Maybe he will get a clue about all the work you do when he has to I don't know...pitch in?!!

So you damn well should! Take it easy on yourself girl and do what you’re in the mood for. Sometimes a strike is needed to get some order back in the house 😤 I’m assuming You’ll be expected to do all these things when you’re back at work too huh? I went through this at one point but girl when I put my foot down and turned this home into boot camp he got a good schooling on life lol

All I gotta say is go girl🫡👐 do you today because you matter too! Sounds like he's quite self centred so he's gonna have to learn the hard way.