Strangers giving unwanted advice
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@Tristan right!
Honestly I think it’s a generational thing. Both my grandmothers make comments on how much I hold my baby, how much I rock him to sleep, comfort him and so on and so on. I feel like our generation ; has more information about babies and what they need, like feeding cues, sleeping windows , etc. obviously you know what’s best for your baby. And other peoples comments shouldn’t bother you but they do. Like my mother in law constantly says my little one hates her bc he won’t let her hold him when he’s upset or tired he wants his momma and there is nothing wrong with that. I feel like we as a generation want what’s best for our babies and that means a lot more contact , interaction and comforting them. Try not to let those comments affect you - you’re doing a great job and no one knows that baby like you do !
@Devin I agree! It normally doesn't bother me too much, it was just the amount of comments while we were just shopping by strangers 😂 I get it, they've raised babies before but every baby is different 🤷♀️ Thank you for your kind words!💗
@madison you’re so very welcome, I totally get how you feel. The other day my grandmother told me I was overfeeding my baby and I’m like um no he eats about 4-6 oz every 3-4 hours. And when he refuses the bubba I don’t force him to eat. She’s like well it’s just unheard of a baby with reflux issues and I was not to be rude grams but the pediatrician said he had it and blah blah blah .. 😑
I HATE when the say he’s hungry. It’s probably the thing that losses me off the most. Like.. you don’t know my babies hunger cues. I know when he’s hungry. Most of the time I had just fed him too ughhhh