Rule List - to send or not to send?
This is my second baby, and I feel like I have become a bit more confident since having my first, I do not want to be in uncomfortable situations when my daughter is born. It was such a stressful time to constantly tell people not to do certain things, it would cause arguments and tension between us.
This time, I don’t care who this offends. I want people to read this list and make an effort to stick to these rules. My partner is really against sending this out. The only people we will need to send this to is MIL, FIL and my own dad because they are the only people who constantly disrespected our wishes, and did everything on this list.
My partner thinks it will cause arguments and thinks that they will feel uncomfortable around our kids because they have all these ‘rules’, but I feel like they are just normal things that normal people shouldn’t be/should be doing!!??
The only part I might take out is the bottom bit about explaining the illness part, my 1st born was always ill from MIL, FIL and my dad so I don’t doubt it was down to poor hygiene from them. (2nd screenshot in the comments)
Edited to add - every thing on this list is something that MIL, FIL or my dad did on multiple occasions.