Those who say you can spoil a baby - shut up !!
Before my baby was born I strongly felt I will give all my baby wants, if he wants to be held he will, if he wants a contact nap he'll get it - because he's tiny and I am his security safety and comfort. I am his all
Now he's here, I've had comments from relatives to say put him down, don't need to pick him up all the time etc etc he can cry for a bit. I really disagree but I just say yeah OK.
Then bubba will have days he's not happy, he's more fussy and also cluster feeds so I basically can't put him down. Those days I think oh am I doing it wrong, am I making him clingy?! And I'm not, he's bloody 5 weeks old, I am all he knows!!!
It's the fact I doubt myself because of stupid comments like that. Shut up lol
The funny thing is, my niece wasn't "spoilt" when she was a newborn / smaller yet now as a 9 month old she's the clingiest baby going. It's BS !