Hi I do the same!!! If baby can soothe themselves back to sleep, then she doesn't need me if my thoughts process. You need your sleep too!
I do the same with my 11 week old! If she’s letting out a hunger cry/sound I tend to her, but if she’s just making coos I’ll let her sooth herself. You’re not a bad mom!! You’re doing amazing ✨
I do the same thing with my 8 week old. Sometimes I will offer her pacifier because I know it helps but you’re definitely not a bad mom